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Kenzie Notes: On blind spots, trust your team, and the power of not knowing

Why what you don't see matters more than what you do

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The Expert's Blind Spot: When Experience Becomes a Liability

"Just because you didn't see it, doesn't mean it didn't happen."

A mentor told me this early in my management career. At the time, I nodded and thought I understood. Years later, I realize how profound this insight actually is - especially for experienced leaders.

It's strange, but expertise can actually make us more susceptible to what I call the knowledge fallacy: the unconscious belief that what we don't know doesn't exist. And ironically, the more senior we become, the worse this gets.

I've seen this play out countless times with seasoned leaders. The conversation typically goes something like this:

  • "I've been doing this for twenty years. I know how these projects typically go."

  • "The team says they've found a better approach."

  • "That won't work. I've seen every variation possible."

Here's the thing: they might be right about their expertise – but completely wrong about how it applies to the current situation. This isn't just a minor leadership quirk. It creates real damage.

When leaders get trapped in their expertise, a predictable pattern emerges. Team members learn that challenging the manager's experience is career suicide. Innovation gets suffocated under "we've tried that before." Communication channels close. And perhaps most ironically, the manager's expertise – their greatest asset – becomes their biggest liability.

What makes this trap so sneaky is that it feels like wisdom. After all, shouldn't we trust proven experience? But there's a world of difference between applying experience and being blinded by it.

Escaping the Expertise Trap

I've spent years watching how the best senior leaders handle this paradox, and they do something counterintuitive: they build systematic ways to question their own expertise.

Instead of saying "That won't work because..." (which shuts down conversation), they ask "How might this be different from what I've seen before?" Instead of declaring "I've seen this before" (which signals they've already decided), they say "Help me understand what you're seeing."

This isn't just semantic games. It's a fundamental shift in how they use their experience.

The most effective leaders I know do something that seems almost backwards – they deliberately seek out contradictions to their experience. When a team member says something that conflicts with what they "know" to be true, they get curious instead of defensive.

One business leader I work with actually schedules what he calls "assumption-challenging sessions." He brings in junior team members and asks: "What am I missing about how we're approaching this?" Another leader starts her strategic meetings with: "Here's what my experience tells me, but I need to hear where my experience might be wrong."

These aren't just feel-good exercises. They're practical ways to prevent expertise from becoming a prison.

Making This Work Day-to-Day

If you're thinking this sounds great in theory but wondering how it works in practice, here are things I've seen work:

When you feel certain about something based on your experience, pause. Just a brief moment to ask yourself: "What's changed in the environment since I learned this? What new factors might be at play?" This mental speed bump can make all the difference.

Talk to frontline people regularly. Not in formal settings where they'll tell you what they think you want to hear, but in contexts where they'll speak freely. One of my former bosses spent one day a week walking through the office and asking one question: "What am I not seeing?"

Build relationships with a few trusted people who have permission to call you out. Tell them explicitly: "I need you to push back when you think my experience is creating blind spots." And when they do, resist the urge to defend or explain.

Try approaching one challenge each month by pretending you know nothing about it. Ask basic questions. Consider approaches that might seem naïve or unworkable at first glance. It's remarkable what emerges when you temporarily suspend your expertise.

The Real Work

The hardest part of this whole approach is managing your own reactions. When someone challenges what you "know" to be true, the natural response is to explain why they're wrong. That's your expertise asserting itself. Recognize that feeling for what it is – a warning sign that you might be falling into the expertise trap.

Instead of jumping to "Here's why that won't work," try "That's different from what I've seen before. Tell me more." Instead of "We tried that already," ask "How is what you're suggesting different from what we've done in the past?"

I've found it helpful to keep track of surprises – times when reality contradicted my expectations. Not just mentally noting them, but actually writing them down. There's something powerful about seeing a growing list of things you were wrong about. It builds a healthy humility that counterbalances the confidence that comes with expertise.

Here is what I want you to take away: your experience is incredibly valuable. But it's most valuable when it's used as a starting point for exploration, not as a conversation ender. The next time you catch yourself thinking "I've seen this before," add a critical second thought: "...but I wonder how this situation might be different." That simple mental move opens possibilities that your expertise alone might miss.

Your experience is one of your greatest assets. Just don't let it be the only thing you bring to the table. Tomorrow, pick one situation where you typically rely on past knowledge. Approach it with questions instead of conclusions. See what happens when you treat your expertise as the beginning of the conversation, not the end of it.